Gay is an accomplished poet whose prose is dense and digressionary. We are disappointed in her progress, but we choose to believe that humanity is generally good and that people will eventually do the right thing, so we will benevolently continue to give her the benefit of the delightful doubt. Gay’s pieces serve as a powerful and necessary reminder that we can, and should, stake out a space in our lives for delight.Ī delightful buddy read with the delightful Allie, who is working hard to remedy her many Nicolas Cage-related character defects. The Book of Delights is about our connection to the world, to each other, and the rewards that come from a life closely observed. Fans of Roxane Gay, Maggie Nelson, and Kiese Laymon will revel in Gay’s voice, and his insights. This is not a book of how-to or inspiration, though it could be read that way.

And more than any other subject, Gay celebrates the beauty of the natural world-his garden, the flowers in the sidewalk, the birds, the bees, the mushrooms, the trees. Among Gay’s funny, poetic, philosophical delights: the way Botan Rice Candy wrappers melt in your mouth, the volunteer crossing guard with a pronounced tremor whom he imagines as a kind of boat-woman escorting pedestrians across the River Styx, a friend’s unabashed use of air quotes, pickup basketball games, the silent nod of acknowledgment between black people. His is a meditation on delight that takes a clear-eyed view of the complexities, even the terrors, in his life, including living in America as a black man the ecological and psychic violence of our consumer culture the loss of those he loves. Ross Gay’s The Book of Delights is a genre-defying book of essays-some as short as a paragraph some as long as five pages-that record the small joys that occurred in one year, from birthday to birthday, and that we often overlook in our busy lives.

The winner of the NBCC Award for Poetry offers up a spirited collection of short lyric essays, written daily over a tumultuous year, reminding us of the purpose and pleasure of praising, extolling, and celebrating ordinary wonders.

The book of delights essays by ross gay